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Unpopular Decision but…Let’s talk about it

Since I’ve been born (60’s) sex and drugs have been a marriage.  And even today, teens, adults, rock and rollers, various artists, models, well you name it who use drugs often have sex or pass out.  So why is the Bill Cosby ordeal being turned into him being a mad man and rapist?  The media first stated that Bill Cosby sneakily slipped drugs into women drinks to have sex with them.  Now that the documents from the AP came out stating: “Did you know you were taking drugs?” (Quaaludes) “YES”  The media has changed its angle to….Bill Cosby admitted to giving drugs.  Well if they knew they were taking the drugs….ummmmm  What exactly are we pinning this man for?  And it seems that every woman that came forward were women wanting to be popular. Beverly Johnson, the writer, etc.  And this is it….Why exactly were they alone with him in the first place?  Wasn’t he married?  Was there an interview for the Cosby Show?  I guess I’m the only person looking at this situation as…these women wanted more from Mr. Cosby and didn’t get it.  And here’s the opportunity to bury his livelihood and career.  Because last time I noted, taking drugs willingly is wrong and against the law; it makes for other things to happen.

Let’s Talk About this!

Wishing you well…Or not!

Do you want to go out?  What are you up to?  Why don’t you come over?  Do you have a minute…I need to talk.  Let’s go shopping.  Have you seen …?  These are the questions your single friends will ask at any time of the day or night…that’s until you move in with your guy.  The phone calls stop.  They don’t even check on you to see how things are going…I take that back…to see if things are going badly.  Once things turn out to work out and you’re happy…you can turn your phone in and actually get a pre-paid phone because you are not using minutes with no one other than family members and other people who are in relationships.

He says:  Why don’t your girlfriends call anymore?  What happened?

She says: I don’t know.  I thought they were happy for me.

She doesn’t know how to feel about this. She reflects and re-evaluates how she’s treated them.  She recalls always supportive when they were in relationships.  She’s helped them with their problems.  She gave them a shoulder to lean on and if they ever needed it…a few bucks for whatever.

Many women find it difficult to wish other women happiness.  Why is that?  They can do it when they are part of a sorority.  Or is that forced too…because you’re supposed to be supportive.  What is it about?  Women can be the most nurturing and giving human being; but when it comes to a friend having a relationship and the friend empty handed.zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz  the friendship sleeps.  It becomes dormant.  Were they ever friends?  Do you invite them to the wedding?  I mean, you’ve never had an argument to end the relationship…it just dissolved within the debauched friendship.

What do you do?  Do you call and make them respond to their insecurities? Do you just wish them well? Because really, that’s the type of person you are.  Do you care? What do you do?