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Unpopular Decision but…Let’s talk about it

Since I’ve been born (60’s) sex and drugs have been a marriage.  And even today, teens, adults, rock and rollers, various artists, models, well you name it who use drugs often have sex or pass out.  So why is the Bill Cosby ordeal being turned into him being a mad man and rapist?  The media first stated that Bill Cosby sneakily slipped drugs into women drinks to have sex with them.  Now that the documents from the AP came out stating: “Did you know you were taking drugs?” (Quaaludes) “YES”  The media has changed its angle to….Bill Cosby admitted to giving drugs.  Well if they knew they were taking the drugs….ummmmm  What exactly are we pinning this man for?  And it seems that every woman that came forward were women wanting to be popular. Beverly Johnson, the writer, etc.  And this is it….Why exactly were they alone with him in the first place?  Wasn’t he married?  Was there an interview for the Cosby Show?  I guess I’m the only person looking at this situation as…these women wanted more from Mr. Cosby and didn’t get it.  And here’s the opportunity to bury his livelihood and career.  Because last time I noted, taking drugs willingly is wrong and against the law; it makes for other things to happen.

Let’s Talk About this!

Let’s Talk For Real

Do you know, where you’re going to? Do you like the things that life is showing you?  Where are you going to? Do you know? Do you get, what you’re hoping for when you look behind and there’s no open door?  What are you hoping for?  Do you know?  The theme from “Mahogany” by Diana Ross rings in my mind on a daily basis.  As soon as I get a chance to gather my thoughts and begin to review and analyze the crisis of America regarding race, something else happens. In the 21st Century, the dreams of having a good relationship, having a good job, addressing or not addressing racism still exist.  Some of us paint our faces everyday with a strength to keep our jobs, to be good mothers and fathers, to be great educators, people..in all professions..just to survive.  We are unable to demonstrate the disappointment with our society in fear of losing our jobs, livelihood.  It seems that certain minorities will never have a voice.

I recently read an article regarding Starbucks adding the phrase to their cups attempting to spark a conversation regarding race-relations.  I did not think that was an ideal thing for Starbucks simply because their clientele  is predominately white and are at certain socio-economic status.  In my mind, this would be another forum held by people who it doesn’t directly effect. But, I do commend them on thinking of the idea.

Where do we start as a country?  There are African American organizations who are addressing and discussing the issues; which is great.  However, we need to have a diverse panel to begin together.  We need politicians to put aside their personal agendas, and personal views and acknowledge the problems America is ignoring.  News anchors attempt to compile programs to  address issues that most minorities already know and face on a daily basis and feel good about themselves because they think they are opening the eyes to Americans.  But they are not.  They are telling a repetitive story of racism and the inequities in society, but does nothing about…except video tape, and sometimes discuss…but never really attempt to resolve.

Let’s have the conversation.  Take the kid gloves off.  It’s well overdue.  Begin now.